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In this swirl of confusion my husband decided to go into his own true confession and tell me that he had cheated too, for the first 4 years of our marriage.
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And I find him fairly creepy as well, going on a lesbian blog to bitch his woes in the tide of straight women. I forgot about that other comment he left. Yep, totally an asshole. Aside from being misogynistic, he is also antagonistic.
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Please Frank find a straight persons blog to vent about such things. I do wish good luck to you. Are you having a light bulb moment? Let me help you: The problem is you, my friend. Unfortunately, creeps take advantage of it. I get that and I could kind of see that happening. Elegy — loved the first link. Thanks for holding the hammer for me.
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I fell in love with her and left my boyfriend for her, I realized all of the feelings I had been supressing were really okay and came out as a lesbian. I found out sometime into our relationship that my gf had only previously dated straight women and most of them were married or in a relationship and cheated on their men with her. They all eventually left her to stay with their men.
I never figured it out and I was the only woman who came out and stayed out after being with her. Frank Listen to Grandma search discrete dating. You need to get help.
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Maybe he thinks this is a captive audience for his anti gay temper tantrums who knows. Can I make two points that probably have already been made?
Messing with someone who is in a relationship is tricky business. No matter what the gender combination is. LMAO poor angry bitter Frank. Well im sure he did- since were are ref to Frank. That makes him even grosser and even creeper if that was possible. You are beyond help. Your hatred towards lesbians is beyond grotesque. With all your different names portraying the same hate filled message and speaking in the 3rd person LOL reflects you are not Grandma search discrete dating stable.
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The aim is to ruffle feathers and cause ire. He may try to use a proxy next. At any rate, he is a total spammer who just happens to be latently gay and full of self-loathing. I normally sympathize with the likes of him, but his inward anger has twisted and now spews out as putrescent word vomit. Like we did not see that one coming. Franks real issue- besides a deep seated hatred of lesbians, women in general- is a complete inability to cope with the person he thinks of himself Ladies seeking sex tonight Fruitland Park Florida, and the asshat he actually is.
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